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Writes the twelve signs

Nell Ashcombe

  • The twelve signs
  • Symbolism and star lore
  • Sun, moon and rising
  • Cusps and dates

Nell came to the zodiac sideways, through myth. She had been collecting stories about the sky for years, the kind where a bull is a god in disguise and a scorpion is sent to settle an argument, before she noticed that the twelve signs were doing something quietly practical underneath all that drama. They were sorting people by temperament, and they had been doing it for a very long time.

That is the work she gives the signs here. Each one is a precise vocabulary: a way of seeing the child who arrives head first and the child who watches from the doorway before joining in. Parents recognise these differences; astrology gives them language specific enough to be useful at seven in the evening.

She writes the twelve readings and the pieces that explain how the sky works, and she is exact about both. She will tell you why the dates on every chart slide by a day from one year to the next, because a parent who understands how a cusp actually works stops worrying about standing on one and starts reading the degree it sits in.

Her favourite letters are from parents who recognise their child immediately in a reading. The sky gives them a starting point for paying closer attention to the singular person growing in front of them.

The signs Nell reads

Everyday pieces

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